This is perfectly fine to do, as long as you understand that the relationship will never go any further and you are ok with that. You can accept it for what it is. However, if your thoughts about this person feel like they're becoming overwhelming or you're feeling increasingly more in love or obsessed with them — that is not healthy, and I would recommend talking to someone about that. Falling in love with strangers is an odd phenomenon. But we know that the intrigue is exciting, and the unknown is a thrill.
If you act on your feelings, it can be amazing, it can be a let-down, or it can plain and be understood in your mind as infatuation. Whatever the conclusion that comes out from falling in love with a stranger, my advice would be simply that you should embrace it. Love is an experience, and we are here to live through those experiences and for those experiences to shape us.
Strangers that we fall in love with are gifts, and being able to feel love is the greatest emotion. I hope I was able to help you figure out what you should do if you feel like you have fallen in love with a stranger. I have been through this before, as I think the majority of people have, so I think it's essential to be advised what steps you should take going forward.
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And of course, if you want to share any personal stories about your experiences with falling in love with strangers and have any advice about what you did, please let us know. I fall in love with a stranger but we've never talk and but to what I think he also have the same feeling, what can I do? Actually i am experiencing the same thing, i usually walk for 1 to 2 hours per day! Once i have met a person that walks also on the same road i do, i felt something for him.
Previously, he did not walk everyday but now i can feel that everyday at the same time i come he comes and i do the same. But we never talk. The problem is not in the stranger thing. The problem is that we both are mens! I am bisexual and if that person was a girl I would definitely not have a problem talking to here but my biggest fear is that mybe hes not into me and this will be so weird from me.
I need someones advice also how to know if that person is into me also without ruining everything and getting embarrassed. I too have fallen for a stranger who walks his dog,and himself near me. I know where he lives but am too scared to talk as hes a lot younger.
I have to know about him. When next u guys meet again walk up next to him and start a conversation with him like asking him about the name if his dog,it's gender,it's age. So from there u can make it up with him. I met someone from fb dating. I considered him as a stranger because I don't know much about his identity. Yet we talked about deep things and in short, we vibe well. For almost two weeks, every single day we're chatting even for a short while but one day, after some normal conversation, I just found out that he blocked me.
Yet later on I didn't feel sad or angry, just normal. But I'm head over heels about him and I can't get him off my mind. He just made an impact and I felt that it was my first time falling in love.
Your email address will not be published. HerNorm is a community-supported website. We may earn a small commission on purchases made through our links. Learn more. Contents 1 Is it love or infatuation? Why do we feel like that?
Related Content. The more times you fall in love, the more you'll grow to understand love. If you find someone you love then continue to love that person for as long as humanly possible.
You can make yourself do it. Fall in love regularly, and do so with those you barely even know, but be careful with whom you choose to love -- not fall in love with, but really love. You don't need to know someone to fall in love with him or her. In fact, we all fall in love with people who are basically complete strangers.
However, not until you are capable of loving at a certain depth are you capable of truly loving. Anyone can fall in love.
But to really love someone, to know what loving someone means, you have to have some experience. Only when you begin to understand what having that person in your life means to you, will you be capable of loving someone in the fullest sense.
Not until you understand how it hurts not having this person by your side, will you understand how much you need him or her. To love in its fullest form is to need someone's presence in your life in order to be happy. If you cannot be truly happy without an individual, if you cannot imagine living the rest of your life without ever seeing this person again, then you finally understand love. An online flirtation is often just an ego stroke. But sometimes the stranger on the Internet becomes a friend who becomes a lover who becomes a partner who will share our lives.
Sometimes, it comes when we least expect it and surprises us in the best way possible. They are no longer a stranger. They have become a trusted person, a real person, and what began as an online connection can become so much more. I do, however, have many friends online, and I found an online connection evolving. It started as a friendship, and then it began to transform into something more. I let it unfold, and what happened is that the online connection progressed from messages to phone calls to an in-person meet.
Life is funny that way. We should absolutely not fall in love with the stranger on the Internet. But maybe sometimes they become something more than a stranger. Maybe they become a friend who becomes so much more. If you enjoyed this, check out:. Former therapist. Author, Heart of Madison series. Sign in. Felicia C.
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