You did have every right to say what bothered you and ask him to stop. If no, you go. Case in point: We were riding a bus together on a three-person bench seat, near each other but there was some space between us. Although there were numerous seats available nearby, it appeared that an elderly woman was moving to sit down between us. I moved my arm to block the space. He met one married lady and said he imagined dating her if both of them were not married.
I know he loves me, but this is hard to take. I did marry him, though. What do you think about this? People are human. Men and women all look at things that interest us.
We are sexual beings, and even if we are madly and faithfully in love with our partners, we still look. It sounds like your husband is staring and flirting obviously, and even throwing it in your face. Your husband may feel insecure if his masculine qualities, like physical strength, never impress you. Since he'll feel even less like a tough guy divulging this need for extra attention, he'll stay mum. So compliment his brawn—even if it's just for popping the lid off the jam jar. Also, give him a chance to assemble that dresser before offering your expertise.
Dow says if you take charge instead of letting him take care of it, he'll feel emasculated. The male brain is hardwired to notice pretty young things, since they're likely to be fertile and capable of producing healthy children, says Dr, Dow. In fact, your hubby's head may turn before his brain realizes!
Call him out for ogling or flirting, but let him off the hook for the occasional quick glance. Distant sights may register easily for him—"his hunter brain needed to target animals far away to bring home dinner a few thousand years back," says Dr. Dow—but he isn't attuned to finer, up-close details. To him, the blue dress looks just like the red one you tried on. Your child's birthday or due date. Girl Boy Other Not Sure. Add A Child.
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